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Feelings Expressed

Love Yourself

Every person is fighting with his own life. Everyone is suffering and trying to survive. Those who smile outside may be hiding many wounds in their heart and soul. No one can estimate the suffering of other person no matter how much we try.

We do not know how much the other is struggling with his life. Now a days we only care about our emotions we do not want to get hurt we do not want to be ignored we do not want to be cheated. We want the other person to give his all time thinking that we are the only one in his life. Unaware of the fact that he has to deal with other people. Unaware of the fact that he is also struggling for something else. For his living or may be for our living.

They may ignore you because of their problems but instead of misunderstanding them, try to understand their worries. Try to reduce their burden by relieving them. Try to reduce their pain by consoling them. If they do not talk with you whenever you want, it does not mean they do not love you. They may love you more than you can imagine.

However, feelings cannot feed someone they have to earn in order to make you to live with them they also have to care for family. They have to deal with people in order to protect you and their loved ones. So instead of increasing their worries and pain try to decrease their pain by understanding them and caring for them. Do not let them leave you. Love yourself and your loved ones and cherish them as long as you are with them.

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Life every Moment of your Life

A Chat with GOD

A man died…
When he realized it, he saw God coming closer with a suitcase in his hand.
Dialog between God and Dead Man:

God: Alright son, it’s time to go
Man: So soon? I had a lot of plans…
God: I am sorry but, it’s time to go
Man: What do you have in that suitcase?
God: Your belongings
Man: My belongings? You mean my things… Clothes… money…
God: Those things were never yours, they belong to the Earth
Man: Is it my memories?
God: No. They belong to Time
Man: Is it my talent?
God: No. They belong to Circumstance

Man: Is it my friends and family?
God: No son. They belong to the Path you travelled
Man: Is it my wife and children?
God: No. they belong to your Heart
Man: Then it must be my body
God: No No… It belongs to Dust
Man: Then surely it must be my Soul!
God: You are sadly mistaken son. Your Soul belongs to me.

Man with tears in his eyes and full of fear took the suitcase from the God’s hand and opened it…
EMPTY!!
With heartbroken and tears down his cheek he asks God…
Man: I never owned anything?
God: That’s Right. You never owned anything.
Man: Then? What was mine?
God: your MOMENTS. Every moment you lived was yours.

A Chat with God

A Chat with God – Life is just a Moment. Live it

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Parents A voice of Child

Parents A Voice of Child

PARENTS A VOICE OF CHILD

Parents, you are the most powerful voice in your child’s life. Some of you may have trouble believing this. Trust me though. Your child listens to you, studies you, and believes you. Sometimes this may not seem true when other voices seem louder than yours, but you hold a place of special influence with your child. The key is to use it the right way.

Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a child to be loved. When the milk is splattered all over the floor, and your little one is looking at you for your reaction … remember what really matters. It takes 5 minutes to clean up spilled milk. It takes much longer to clean up a broken heart.

Parents A Voice of Child

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Parents Upbringing

Parents Upbringing

  Is parents so wrong on their Upbringing???

So heart aching to see this in the morning.
I’m not quite sure how some mother’s treat their child nowadays.

So the mother was raising her voice at her daughter about her not able to finish 2 slices of bread with jam in it. The mother was already having her “slapping hand” mode, keep chasing her to finish her food. The daughter keeps looking at her and shaking her head when she saw the hand sign. Out of the sudden she slap her daughter face. Even the ahma behind her just keep shaking her head. The daughter cried a few seconds and stop. She was force to eat a bread, and was scare to even cry. She’s so tiny. And continue with her “slapping hand” mode sign so her daughter will faster finish her bread.

I can’t really do much since there’s so many people in the bus, and the mum will probably yell “it’s none of your business of how I treat my kid” cos I’ve seen before, when a stranger step out. The mum might give the daughter more after getting down on bus.

Just feel that that’s not the right way to treat your kid. She just shouldn’t slap her even if she can’t finish her bread. Should have just ask her why she can’t finish the bread? Or maybe she needs water?

That’s just not right.

Hope the little girl will not treat her friends like how her mum treats her. Hopefully not following her mother steps by hitting others for not getting her own way.

Parent should not hit their child like that, not the right way to lecture like that. So wrong

 

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Talent and Skill

Talent and Skill

The separation of talent and skill is one of the greatest misunderstood concepts for people who are trying to excel, who have dreams, who want to do things. Talent you have naturally. Skill is only developed by hours and hours and hours of beating on your craft.

I’ve never really viewed myself as particularly talented. Where I excel is ridiculous, sickening work ethic. You know, while the other guy’s sleeping, I’m working. While the other guys’ eating, I’m working.

There’s no easy way around it. No matter how talented you are, your talent is going to fail you if you’re not skilled. If you don’t study, if you don’t work really hard and dedicate yourself to being better every single day, you’ll never be able to communicate with people – with your artistry – the way that you want….

The only thing that I see that is distinctly different about me is: I’m not afraid to die on a treadmill. You might have more talent than me; you might be smarter than me. But if we get on a treadmill together, there’s two things: you’re getting off first, or I’m gonna die.

It’s really that simple.

You Make Your Own Beliefs

You make Your own Beliefs

Life is not, what has been offered to you, but what you make out of it. Life is all about your beliefs. You make your beliefs. Belief is to believe in something. We believe in life, out of trust, faith and sometimes because the world believes in it.

Your beliefs can only stand the truth if it comes out of your personal experience. Belief is required to take an action. Once you have an experience, your belief gets restore in you.

Beliefs are formed in two ways. Either you accept something, without applying into your life, then that belief simply remains an illusive reality for you, because when the time comes for you to act on your belief, everything that you hold in your mind, simply falls apart.

The another way to develop a belief is to act upon the belief. To get the first-hand experience out of the belief. Once you have an experience, no matter what or who try to deviate you from your belief, you can always stand on, what you believe, because now it has become the part of your experience.

It’s hard to make your own beliefs, as people are most used to believe in things, without personal experience.

If I tell you hard work pays off, and smart work doesn’t or smart work pays off, and hard work don’t, then you can agree with me on both the terms, but you can never get to the truth of it unless you apply and experience it for yourself. Only then the truth out of belief will be revealed to you.

You can make your own beliefs, out of choice and personal experience. When you make a choice in life, you create your own path and choose the success and failure for yourself. Then you don’t have to make somebody else, responsible for your downfall. You take complete responsibility for your life.

This can only happen if you trust yourself enough to take the decisions of your life, and ready to pay the price for it if anything goes wrong.

How do you develop your Personal Beliefs?

When you make a choice to make it big in life and start taking an active step towards it, over the time, you push your mind, body and emotions to get closer to it. With faith in yourself, and trusting your dreams, you move on with life.

When you walk towards your dreams, you get closer to it. Slowly you see the clear picture and images of your dreams. You take one step at a time.You accumulate experience with every step. This experience turns into your beliefs. As you move on with life, your beliefs get stronger, and you create life out of your desire. This is how you develop your personal beliefs.

The beliefs can only create wonders in life if it’s out of your personal experience.
The time you have enough of your personal experiences in life, you develop your own beliefs, and if you have achieved success with your beliefs, you can share the same with others, but your sharing will not be out of assumption, but the real authentic experience of life.

It’s always good to learn from others experience, but one should know, how to differentiate between the beliefs out of the experience, and the borrowed beliefs. Everyone knowingly unknowingly carries their own beliefs and creates life out of it. Whatever you believe in yourself, becomes your truth in life.

There is no right or wrong, but what you feel right for yourself, is the only truth of life, and with the deeper conviction, it becomes a part of your belief system.
Whatever belief you carry for yourself, make sure it’s not shaken by the beliefs of others, and should at least fulfill your purpose of life. If your beliefs, doesn’t give you the required satisfaction, then it’s certainly a borrowed belief, and you might be walking on someone else’s path.

“Develop a New Belief.”
Beliefs can always be replaced, and we can add fresh & new beliefs to our system. If before July 1969, if anybody have been asked about the possibility of landing on the moon, the answer would have definite No.

Neil Arm Strong landed on Moon, on July 1969.

Once Neil Arm Strong landed on Moon, the belief system got changed in a flick of a second. Beliefs are thoughts, that can be replaced, by developing the new belief system.

We all create our own beliefs by expanding our imagination. Imagination creates thoughts, and thoughts turn into an action which leads to creating a new belief system. If you have the weaker imagination for the future, try to change it, create a better picture, & act out of your imagination, so that you can have better experiences, to develop a better belief system.

If you have the weaker imagination for the future, try to change it, create a better picture, & act out of your imagination, so that you can have better experiences, to develop a better belief system.

The mind is like a vessel. As you accumulate new experiences of life, old experiences get replaced by it, but keep in mind, to have fresh experiences better than the previous one. Only then you grow and get better with your experiences of life.

The mind is an instrument for all the beliefs of this world, be it religious, spiritual, social, political or any other beliefs. Mind creates thoughts out of imagination, and these thoughts turn into emotions, that compels the person to act. The mind is a source of everything. Mind drives us everywhere. Either we are driven for pleasure, out of fear,out of emotions, or sometimes carried away by the past or future.

Life is like a reflective mirror, which shows not what you think, you are, but what you are. If you think, you are six feet tall in your mind, and you stand in front of the mirror, the mirror will not reflect what you think, but will reflect, what your actual height.

In the mind, we think something else, while the actual reality is far different than what we think. Rather remain lost in the thinking, we have to learn to remain more in the reality, so that we don’t get lost in the illusory imagination of the mind.

A life that we see outside starts with the mind. Whatever you see in the outside world reflects your inner thoughts and imagination. You only give, what you have inside, and the same reflects back to your life. Change your inner world, to see the change, in the outside world.

You can use different tools to have new experiences in life. This experiences can take you all together to a new level, to make the most magnificent life on this earth.

The only way to change the old beliefs and develop the new ones is to work within. There are few techniques, that directly impacts the thought patterns and the imagination, to help you create a new perspective towards life. You can only work on something or act upon the thing if your mind holds the image of it. If you can’t see it in your mind, you cannot make it a part of your reality.

Meditation, silence, any form of physical exercise or connecting with the breath, helps tremendously to expand the imaginative part of the mind and change the past belief system.

Improvement on the path is equally important, to expand the imagination, and manifest it on this earth. When we improve upon the path, on a daily basis, we see the future path, and this gives us the confidence to act with more courage, on the path.

The Past

The Past

 

The past is a place we are familiar with. We know what happens there and nothing ever changes. So many of us try to go back to the past and hold onto it because the fear of the future is too much. The past is filled with pain which is why we must move forward because even though the future is scary, it allows us a chance to be brave. Familiarity doesn’t always mean healthy, safe, or good. The only right path is one that takes you forward towards healing and good things.

Not Every thing Lasts!

Not Every thing Lasts!

 

Not everything is supposed to become something beautiful and long-lasting.

Sometimes people come into your life to show you what is right and what is wrong, to show you who you can be, to teach you to love yourself, to make you feel better for a little while, or to just be someone to walk with at night and spill your lift to.

Not everyone is going to stay forever, and we will have to keep on going and thank them for what they’ve given us.

What do you Deserve?

You don’t deserve someone,who come back

You deserve someone, who never leaves

 

I used to wonder about people coming back after they’ve decided to leave. I used to wait for the day they come back and realize that they messed up or realize that life is miserable without me. But then I realized that better than all this mess is someone who never leaves.

Someone who never leaves when you hit bumps in the road, someone who never leaves when the rain starts falling down on you, someone who never leaves no matter how many other people are trying to get their attention, someone who chooses to stay every single day.

You deserve someone who never leaves when you tell them about the things you did that you’re ashamed of and the things that happened to you that you promised not to tell anyone. When you tell them about the things you really don’t like about yourself and the things you hated about your past. You deserve someone who never leaves no matter how dark it gets.

You deserve someone who never leaves when you tell them how much you love them, how much you really want to make them happy and how they make you feel something no else made you feel before. How they are special to you and how you really just want to spend your days looking at them and spend your nights sleeping in their arms.

You deserve someone who stays no matter how passionately you display your love and how fearlessly you show your emotions. You deserve someone who is not afraid of the way you love them.
You deserve someone who never leaves even if they found a better job or made more money or bought a fancier car. Someone who never leaves when they’re at their best, when they can get anyone they want but still choose you, when they don’t even care about exploring all these other ‘options’ to realize your worth because they know what they have and they know that you are one of a kind. You deserve someone who makes you believe that some people can stay.

You deserve someone who never leaves when things are not that exciting, when life becomes overwhelming for you to handle, when you are tired all the time, when you’re lost and confused and don’t know what to do next, when you keep doubting yourself and your capabilities. You deserve someone who reminds you of how you survived, someone who reminds you of your strength, someone who reminds you of your greatness and someone who reminds you that even though you can make it on your own, they want to be there, they don’t want you to be alone this time and they want to fight your battles with you.

Even though we all have that one person we wish could come back, what we really should wish for is someone who never leaves. Someone who left before could leave again but someone who could’ve left but decided to stay is exactly the kind of person you need to be with – is exactly the kind of person you deserve to be with.